The day i got my friend back

Ek shaam yunhi mobile me purani photos scroll karte karte nazar padi ek 8 years old college time ki video pe. Hmare do payaare dost ki hathapai jaari hai, ek k haath me havai chappal (Those were the days when crocs were not in existence, at least for us 😅). Bhayankar ladai jaari hai jameen pe leta leta k, aur baaki k saare dost us samay k 2MP camera se us moment ko capture karne me lage hai, including me.

Video uthayi aur apne group me daal di (This group was dead from around 1 year), aur hum to nikal pade apni scooty uthake north india ki garmi me shaam ki hawa ka anand lene.

Jab 1 ghante baad mobile dekha to saare vilupt dost eksaath active ho gae aur messages pe messages pade the. Ek saathi ne apni ungali uthai aur video call pe laga di. Generally to sab eksath video call pe aate hi nahi the, with usual reasons- kisi ka office, kisi ki family, wagerah wagerah.....

To my surprise everybody joined, even a friend who was not on good terms with me from around 1.5 years. Humne bhi join kar li, bakaiti chalu ho gayi. Ek dusre ke maje le rahe, leg pulling, college ki bewakoofiyan, nasamjhi k kuch kisse 4-5 minute me ho gaya aur uske baad aaya awkward moment. Kuch kuch excuse deke sab nikal gae to join back in someitme aur reh gae hum do, jinke beech aaya ek lamba awkward silence.

Haal chaal lene k baad we finally come to the point kyo cut off hai ek dusre se. Jo bhi hua, usme we didn't harmed each other to kyo hamare beech dooriyan badh gayi and we finally concluded; because no one took the initiative to start the conversation (Vartalap)

"That day, in that moment i realized, just because of our small, nonsense ego we fell apart". 

Hamare perspective alag the, one of us should have sidelined our ego and try to start a conversation. Due to the fact that both of us loved our ego and didn't tried enough, we were falling apart.

Daily we see kitne rishte bante aur bigadte hai. We chit chat on the falling relationships but not the ones which were saved from falling.

In a relationship, i found that until unless one person sidelines his ego and try enough to engage a conversation (Gaali do, samjhao, daat do), the possibility to save that relationship is very thin. Baat karlo yaar if you need that person in your life if you value that person.

I guess i got a little mature on that day, saved on of my very lovely friend, we saved entire group from falling apart and finally planned a awesome Goa trip also. - All positive due to a simple Vartalap ✌

Please meet hmara beloved #ChappalKing :

Apna Chappal King

Kuch apne bhi bigde rishto ko bana lo, just try once my friend.

Peace ☮🕊 
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That's my first blog ever, please ignore mistakes.
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